But if one or both of you are no longer learning and growing, if being with your partner is damaging, then the relationship seems to have more cons than pros. Do you think you should tie yourself to a person who’s made you succumb to a number of bad habits, or who doesn’t work on the relationship as hard as you do?
Now, think about the possibility of rehabilitating or overcoming the ways by which your partner has made you and your life worse. Or have you both reached a dead end?